Life takes you in many directions where it makes you run faster, sometimes tells you to slow down or some days you just can’t find yourself moving at all. Just a pause.
Among all other emotions in life, heartbreak is such an experience that can just stop everything around and within you. You begin to realise that you’re not a scheduled robot in this busy life but a delicate chunk of hardcore flesh & blood. This pain that comes along you simply can’t ignore as it’s coming from someone whom you have loved a lot….selflessly. Though this emotion of love is very confusing and as they famously say – it’s blind & the only thing that could clear many blinds behind is the experience of heartbreak.
No matter how we hate the feeling of it, but its the most important experience to have, sometimes more intense than being in the pleasure of love. It just helps you to look beyond the illusion you were living in! It tells you that it’s okay to feel this pain rather live a lie. It completely shakes you up for better and makes you realise where you stand.
Heartbreak is the only feeling that makes you understand that nothing & no one in this world of yours is going to remain the same. Things & people change around you for better or for worse.
Personally, every time something like this happened to me, it just gave me an unbearable pain but within few hours of the healing time, it helped me to rediscover a stronger me. A new me that I thought never existed. It brought me the closest to reality.
At the end, the choice is completely mine to grow further as a better person rather a bitter one!
Friends do let me know what is your go-to remedy for a heartbreak?