The Heartbreak!

Life takes you in many directions where it makes you run faster, sometimes tells you to slow down or some days you just can’t find yourself moving at all. Just a pause.

Among all other emotions in life, heartbreak is such an experience that can just stop everything around and within you. You begin to realise that you’re not a scheduled robot in this busy life but a delicate chunk of hardcore flesh & blood. This pain that comes along you simply can’t ignore as it’s coming from someone whom you have loved a lot….selflessly. Though this emotion of love is very confusing and as they famously say – it’s blind & the only thing that could clear many blinds behind is the experience of heartbreak.

No matter how we hate the feeling of it, but its the most important experience to have, sometimes more intense than being in the pleasure of love. It just helps you to look beyond the illusion you were living in! It tells you that it’s okay to feel this pain rather live a lie. It completely shakes you up for better and makes you realise where you stand.

Heartbreak is the only feeling that makes you understand that nothing & no one in this world of yours is going to remain the same. Things & people change around you for better or for worse.

Personally, every time something like this happened to me, it just gave me an unbearable pain but within few hours of the healing time, it helped me to rediscover a stronger me. A new me that I thought never existed. It brought me the closest to reality.

At the end, the choice is completely mine to grow further as a better person rather a bitter one!

Friends do let me know what is your go-to remedy for a heartbreak?

34 comments

  1. Very well summarized
    Every heartbreak , be it from the one YOu loved the most or your near or dear ones , make you a stronger person and make you believe that you can live without depending on people who were never yours … the one who breaks your heart actually was not meant to be yours … so as whope the lose is theirs and we just get a lesson and a blessing that we are not with the wrong person any more .
    I wish the best to you Shweta …

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    1. Wow, you said it so well! Spot on comment πŸ™‚

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      1. πŸ™‚ I wish the best to and for you Shweta … Keep the Spirit Up

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      2. Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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  2. my go to remedy has always been family. πŸ™‚

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    1. Good to know that Jim πŸ™‚

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  3. I guess the consequences of heart break are two fold. Either one succumbs under it’s burden or emerges stronger and resilient. The choice is ours. I am glad that you chose the latter.

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    1. Yea Radhika you’re absolutely right! Thanks for visiting πŸ™‚

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  4. Learning from our mistakes and trying to look beyond the surface helps us to grow and make better choices in the future.
    I have been married more than once but each choice seemed “right at the time.” I hope to find a lifelong (,rest of my life) love. It will be more challenging and I must be open to the possibilities. Hugs to you! 🌈
    Smiles, Robin

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    1. Love your attitude towards life and inner optimism! I wish you all the luck and lots of love for your future:) thanks for visiting!

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      1. Thank you for your special comment about my showing optimism. I am heading towards bed now. Have a great day! 🌞

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  5. Ouch. I am looking for a remedy as well. Reading words like yours and knowing I’m not the only one definitely eases the pain a bit.

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    1. No dear, you’re not alone! We all go through these emotions just that our circumstances differ with our own stories. I’m not sure about the remedy but if we choose to stay in our senses throughout the healing process, we can come out of this strongly! Thanks for visiting my blog:)

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  6. Lovely blog and post!!

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    1. Thanks lot! πŸ€—

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  7. Nice post!
    Prayer, meditation, music, and strip clubs was my remedy

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    1. Thanks πŸ™‚

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  8. amilliontimesbroken · · Reply

    Tears
    And more tears.
    Until your able to take a deep breath and it doesn’t hurt your core anymore.
    And lose hope of him returning. Hope is to heartbreak what fuel is to fire.

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    1. Thanks 😊

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  9. β“”β“’β““ 🌻 · · Reply

    I could not agree more. Heartbreak can really make you even stronger and wiser. πŸ’ͺ

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    1. Yes very much! Thanks for stopping by πŸ™‚

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  10. Very well said😊 Thank you for such amazing thought

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    1. I’m glad you liked it πŸ™‚

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  11. So well Written !! ❀

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    1. Thank you πŸ™‚ ❀️

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      1. All the Best πŸ™‚

        Please do check out my blog and let me know what you think of it πŸ™‚

        https://wordpress.com/post/thatdreamerbombaygirl.wordpress.com/9

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      2. For sure πŸ™‚

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  12. My go-to remedy for a heartbreak? Remembering the constants in my life – the things I’ve always loved and those who have always been there for me, loving me through it all and teaching me to love myself well.

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    1. That’s amazing! Thanks dear for connecting πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘πŸΌ

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